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California's odious Proposition 8 (amending the state's constitution to ban same-sex marriage, striking down California's current status as one of the only states in the nation where same-sex couples can legally marry) is ahead in the polls. This is due in part to the Mormon church pouring millions into pro-amendment advertising; the amendment was (narrowly) losing in the polls prior to the Mormons getting involved. This can still be won.
Guys, I've donated more to this than I've ever donated to a political cause in my life. Because it's wrong. No one is being harmed in any way by what their neighbors across the street are doing with their personal lives. This is about bigotry, plain and simple. It's about one group of people with money and power trying to impose their own morality on other people's personal lives. Alaska has one of these amendments (it passed in '99) and I'm still heartsick that I didn't do more at the time to try to stop it.
The Netherlands, Canada, Belgium, Norway, Spain, and South Africa allow gay marriage; Croatia, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Hungary, Iceland, Luxembourg, Mexico, New Zealand, Norway, Portugal, Sweden, Switzerland and the U.K. grant civil unions. As with slavery and female suffrage, it looks like the U.S.A. is slipping behind the civil rights curve yet again, letting the rest of the world lead the way while we pay lip service to freedom while utterly failing to live up to the ideals that this country is supposedly founded on.
And I'm angry and disgusted that so many people are spending so much money to disenfranchise their neighbors and co-workers, their sons and daughters, their doctors and lawyers and salesclerks and dogcatchers. None of the people who were married this summer (some of whom I know; people I like and respect) deserve to have that taken away from them. And those who aren't sure yet, and those who have yet to meet and fall in love, deserve to have the same choice that my husband and I did: to wed, or not. How can any thinking, feeling human being look into the eyes of a man or woman in love and say, "No, you can't marry your sweetheart, like I married mine; you shouldn't have that right"? I cannot wrap my mind around that. It simply doesn't make any sense to me.
If you want to toss a few bucks into the fight, the donation page is here. You can also volunteer to staff phones.
Other states contemplating similar measures this election:
Florida - Prop. 2 would amend the state constitution to ban not only same-sex marriage but civil unions and other "substantial equivalent" arrangements - contribute here to "No on 2"
Arizona - Prop. 102 would amend the constitution to limit marriage to opposite-sex couples - despite a state law already on the books that prohibits the state from allowing same-sex marriage or recognizing marriages performed elsewhere.
Guys, I've donated more to this than I've ever donated to a political cause in my life. Because it's wrong. No one is being harmed in any way by what their neighbors across the street are doing with their personal lives. This is about bigotry, plain and simple. It's about one group of people with money and power trying to impose their own morality on other people's personal lives. Alaska has one of these amendments (it passed in '99) and I'm still heartsick that I didn't do more at the time to try to stop it.
The Netherlands, Canada, Belgium, Norway, Spain, and South Africa allow gay marriage; Croatia, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Hungary, Iceland, Luxembourg, Mexico, New Zealand, Norway, Portugal, Sweden, Switzerland and the U.K. grant civil unions. As with slavery and female suffrage, it looks like the U.S.A. is slipping behind the civil rights curve yet again, letting the rest of the world lead the way while we pay lip service to freedom while utterly failing to live up to the ideals that this country is supposedly founded on.
And I'm angry and disgusted that so many people are spending so much money to disenfranchise their neighbors and co-workers, their sons and daughters, their doctors and lawyers and salesclerks and dogcatchers. None of the people who were married this summer (some of whom I know; people I like and respect) deserve to have that taken away from them. And those who aren't sure yet, and those who have yet to meet and fall in love, deserve to have the same choice that my husband and I did: to wed, or not. How can any thinking, feeling human being look into the eyes of a man or woman in love and say, "No, you can't marry your sweetheart, like I married mine; you shouldn't have that right"? I cannot wrap my mind around that. It simply doesn't make any sense to me.
If you want to toss a few bucks into the fight, the donation page is here. You can also volunteer to staff phones.
Other states contemplating similar measures this election:
Florida - Prop. 2 would amend the state constitution to ban not only same-sex marriage but civil unions and other "substantial equivalent" arrangements - contribute here to "No on 2"
Arizona - Prop. 102 would amend the constitution to limit marriage to opposite-sex couples - despite a state law already on the books that prohibits the state from allowing same-sex marriage or recognizing marriages performed elsewhere.