Well put. I was chatting with my friend about it yesterday, and I pinned down what was bothering me so much about the hats/blankets. I think that it was the knowledge that any baby wearing a hat is not in a womb, and any baby that tiny not in the womb is a dead baby. So it was like looking at dolls of dead babies. *shudder.* I'm sure that lady meant well, but I think she missed the mark...