See, I like babies as much as the next person, and I find the stages of development of the human fetus completely fascinating ... INSIDE the body. This, though ... the little hats on them ... it's like a creepy fetus stalker page or something.
That's awesome about your son, and I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. And this is what I don't get about parents getting the micropreemie dolls, particularly for a child who didn't survive, but even for one who did ... wouldn't it be, I don't know, more of a reminder of something you don't want to think about than anything else? Not that I'm saying people don't have a right to do that if they want to, but wouldn't it be sort of like getting hit by a car and keeping the bumper from the car that hit you? I've got some hardware that was used to hold my leg together when I had surgery when I was 11 -- they thought I might want the pins and such when they took them out, and it *is* kind of cool to see, but what the heck do I do with such a thing? It's not as if I can take it out at parties and show it off to people...
Anyway, I agree with you totally about the abortion thing, as far as an issue that people simply aren't willing to work together on or discuss rationally. Like the drug debate, it's so politically charged that it's virtually impossible even to get sane, rational information that's not slanted towards one side or the other.
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That's awesome about your son, and I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. And this is what I don't get about parents getting the micropreemie dolls, particularly for a child who didn't survive, but even for one who did ... wouldn't it be, I don't know, more of a reminder of something you don't want to think about than anything else? Not that I'm saying people don't have a right to do that if they want to, but wouldn't it be sort of like getting hit by a car and keeping the bumper from the car that hit you? I've got some hardware that was used to hold my leg together when I had surgery when I was 11 -- they thought I might want the pins and such when they took them out, and it *is* kind of cool to see, but what the heck do I do with such a thing? It's not as if I can take it out at parties and show it off to people...
Anyway, I agree with you totally about the abortion thing, as far as an issue that people simply aren't willing to work together on or discuss rationally. Like the drug debate, it's so politically charged that it's virtually impossible even to get sane, rational information that's not slanted towards one side or the other.